It's often a tough balance of parent-child when you are also your child's coach. What are some ways you can improve your child's love of the game and skillset, while minimizing tears? Here are a few tips:
1) Don't use the car trip home to rehash mistakes your child made on the field, instead this is your chance to "put on your parent hat".
2) Don't expect your child to know more than the other kids. By speaking clearly, showing examples, and giving one oR two drills to reinforce new skills--each player on your team should be able to understand new skills and game strategies. All players need to "hear it", "see it", and "practice it" before you expect a skill to carry into performance.
3) Demand effort. Just because your child is... your child, doesn't mean they can get away with talking while you are talking or walking while everyone else is jogging to a position. If you see signs of this, try a pre-practice one-on-one discussion of respect and clearly online any disrespect you feel with examples of *what other kids are doing well* compared to *what your child isnt*. If you feel an after practice talk is in order, do it in the dugout before you get into your car (see tip #1).
These quick tips are provided by Pro Coach and parent, Jordyn Bibiloni. For more tips, drills, and videos follow @ProGGSA on twitter and Instagram.
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